Full Disclosure: I carry the “clutter” gene in my DNA. While my mother’s clan of military migrants moved their Spartan households around the map, my Dad’s family decided there wasn’t an empty bottle or old magazine on earth that shouldn’t be saved. And while half of my chromosomes are Clutter Monkey, my husband got the gene from both sides. Given this, you can probably imagine what our house has looked like in the past. You can imagine it, but you’ll be happier if you don’t try. By March of this year the flotsam and jetsam of life were threatening to swallow us whole. I’ve done a bit to beat back the tide but I’m getting a lot of help from a book my sister sent me. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo has done more than help clean up my house. It’s brought some needed perspective to my life. Most “how-to” books are filled with lists of steps. Marie Kondo teaches tidying by concept. One of her big ideas for recognizing the extras is to spread out everything you have of some category. Then pick up each item, one at a time, and see if it gives you…