I’ve called this column “The Books that Follow you Home” and for these first two months I’ve focused on the books but during “this festive season of the year” to quote my hero, Dickens, I must admit I’m thinking about the other noun in the title, Home. Home is, of course, a big part of the culture of Christmas but it means different things to different people. To some, home at Christmas is a decorated house, the bigger the better, that is bursting at the seams with family, friends and presents to mark the occasion. To others, it’s a small place, where they live very quietly and alone. Home can be an apartment, a ship, a trailer or even just a box but it’s as sacred and wonderful as Windsor Castle or The Breakers because it belongs to you. In a scary, changing world, home is the place where you can be yourself without apology and there’s no reason to be afraid because you are protected when you are between these walls. When home is a good place the very walls seem to warm and comfort you like a comfortable sweater. It’s when architecture becomes a friend. All of this…